It seems Sarah Paulson can?t do an interview without being asked about her relationship with Holland Taylor. But Paulson, 43, understands the intrigue: Taylor is 32 years her senior. ?I do not want to be defined by who I share my bed, my home, my soul with,? The Post actress revealed in Town & Country?s new cover story. ?My choices in life have been unconventional, and that?s my business . . . Our relationship represents ...