The former 'Love and Hip Hop New York' ('LHHNY') star Erica Mena has come a long way from her rowdy and volatile TV persona that fans have come to k**w, and enjoyed watching. She has transformed **t only her look but also her personality, after becoming engaged to actor/rapper Shad "Bow Wow" Moss. Since the beginning of their relationship, the two have Shared a lot, from moving in together, to blending their families and **w suffering through a miscarriage, which Mena revealed through an Emotional Poem on her Instagram account.