Bitting an old tank/cow
 

I have had a 25 yo Dales x (in good shape) since 2016, she came with 15 years worth of tack and from photos seems she's done everything in a flash, running martingale and Dutch 3 ring gag always. I've replaced all old battered tack and ditched the martingale, now riding in a flash with said Dutch gag changing to a French link snaffle for schooling. I'm at the stage now where I know her tricks and I'm attempting to deal with them through regular lessons. I'm not the most confident rider but I try really hard to catch up on the ten plus years between riding gaps (I'm 29). I have begun to turn down all offers to hack out with more than 1 other horse and fun rides as I don't enjoy being tanked off with by an old cow bag with a thick set neck, no brakes and a must win mentality. I was nervous posting this so please be kind I am genuinely looking for a new bit to feel safe in. I understand I need to sit back but easier said than done when she grabs it and runs. I'm desperate to join my friends and say yes to all new experiences but this is holding me back and causes me worry. I've just spent the last 2 hours trawling through old threads but some don't apply and some are so old I wonder whether they still hold weight? I tried a friends Waterford and made no difference what else can I try that could potentially change everything? Can be taught to use new kit by instructor if necessary. Many thanks

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