{"id":315209,"date":"2025-10-31T21:52:50","date_gmt":"2025-10-31T18:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dana.nwar.uk\/sa\/inside-uk-mans-pregnancy-from-tests-and-spotting-to-c-section-and-baby-joy\/"},"modified":"2025-10-31T21:52:50","modified_gmt":"2025-10-31T18:52:50","slug":"inside-uk-mans-pregnancy-from-tests-and-spotting-to-c-section-and-baby-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/inside-uk-mans-pregnancy-from-tests-and-spotting-to-c-section-and-baby-joy\/","title":{"rendered":"Inside UK man\u2019s pregnancy from tests and spotting to c-section and baby joy"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p><img width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0_1SOCIAL-IMAGE-Mirror-exclusive-right-2B.jpg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0_1SOCIAL-IMAGE-Mirror-exclusive-right-2B.jpg 1200w, http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0_1SOCIAL-IMAGE-Mirror-exclusive-right-2B-300x158.jpg 300w, http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0_1SOCIAL-IMAGE-Mirror-exclusive-right-2B-1024x538.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0_1SOCIAL-IMAGE-Mirror-exclusive-right-2B-768x403.jpg 768w, http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0_1SOCIAL-IMAGE-Mirror-exclusive-right-2B-260x137.jpg 260w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"650\" height=\"433\" data-id=\"115457\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1761936724_537_0_1MIRROR-Main-1200x675.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-115457\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"345\" height=\"345\" data-id=\"115458\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Siobhan_McNally1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-115458\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"410\" data-id=\"115459\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2_Malachi-and-Charlie.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-115459\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"410\" data-id=\"53496\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_unnamed-42.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53496\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"410\" data-id=\"53497\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/2_Malachi-and-Charlie.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53497\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"1007\" data-id=\"53498\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_IMG_9357-1jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53498\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"820\" data-id=\"53499\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_45d5d26d-5c2d-4bd4-b518-b75db2aebacf.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53499\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"410\" data-id=\"53500\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/2_IMG_9353jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53500\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"922\" data-id=\"53501\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_unnamed-41.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53501\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"922\" data-id=\"53502\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_IMG_9339jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53502\"><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"615\" height=\"410\" data-id=\"53503\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/2_IMG_9338jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53503\"><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"article-body\">\n<h2 class=\"LeadText_lead-text__wd_PA __className_4ccd0a\" data-testid=\"leadtext\" publication=\"mirror\">Malachi Clarke always knew he wanted to have children and was delighted when he fell pregnant just months after meeting his partner Charlie. Here, he talks candidly to The Mirror about experiencing pregnancy as a man<\/h2>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Grinning from ear-to-ear as they play with their long-for son, dads Malachi Clarke and Charlie Bennett enjoyed every second of their unique road to parenthood.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Malachi is the first female to male trans man in the UK ever to have conceived a baby naturally and went public about his experience of growing Baby A, who is almost two.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cOur son calls me Daddy while Charlie is Daddy,\u201d says Malachi. Explaining why he is speaking out, he says: \u201cWe want people to see there is a positive side to being trans. The media paints us as predators but we\u2019re just a couple getting on with life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cWe lead healthy, happy lives, and we want to be open that trans people can have families. You do have to stop your hormones but you don\u2019t need to freeze your eggs. If you\u2019re trans and you want to have kids naturally, go ahead because you can, like we did.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Just 17 when he came out as trans, Malachi, who was born female, went on the male hormone testosterone at 19 and had top surgery to remove his breasts at 20.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">An administrative palliative care worker, he met the love of his life, childcare professional Charlie three years ago. Coincidentally, he\u2019d stopped taking testosterone 18 months earlier because of severe acne \u2013 which can be a side effect of the hormone \u2013 making it easier for him to get pregnant naturally.<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"image-group\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34817286\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34817286\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:1.5\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_unnamed-42.jpg\" alt=\"Newborn baby with trans dad and his partner\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Minutes old, Baby A is born by elective caesarean in hospital and meets his dad<\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Supplied)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">We meet in the couple\u2019s spotless rented house in Tilehurst, the quiet Berkshire suburb where Charlie grew up. Charlie\u2019s parents \u2013 dubbed \u201cthe in-laws\u201d by Malachi \u2013 live in a house backing onto their lovingly tended garden. Both their families couldn\u2019t be closer \u2013 or more supportive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cWe just fell in love, didn\u2019t we?\u201d says Malachi to Charlie, sitting in his gamer chair, while their fair-haired son, who is almost two, skips about, playing with his toys.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">The couple, who previously had male partners, both felt ready to settle down when they met on Facebook Dating. Charlie says: \u201cWe were honest with each other because I had gotten to the point in life where I wanted to have kids. And Mal did as well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Instantly clicking over a coffee, Malachi says: \u201cWe fancied the pants off each other! Charlie basically came over to my house the next day and never moved out! A month later I found out I was pregnant. Six months later we were engaged and we\u2019ve been together for nearly three years now.\u201d<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"image-group\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34815673\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34815673\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:1.5\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/2_Malachi-and-Charlie.jpg\" alt=\"Man and baby scan of his baby\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Dad Malachi and a framed image of his baby scan <\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Ian Vogler \/ Daily Mirror)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">And they enjoy intimacy. \u201cSex is sex. It\u2019s not gay sex it\u2019s not straight sex \u2013 it\u2019s just sex. It\u2019s hearts not parts to us \u2013 we make do with what we have,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">As we talk, apart from a sweet attempt to do a bit of \u201cwall art\u201d with his crayon as we talk, their toddler\u2019s behavior is angelic. \u201cOur boy has autism, which mainly means his speech has been slower to develop, but he\u2019s met all the other milestones now,\u201d explains Charlie. \u201cAnd he will now be moving into the same nursery class as kids his own age.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">A former adult social care manager, Charlie now works as a room leader at their son\u2019s nursery, while Malachi\u2019s at his admin job at a hospice. \u201cI drop them both off at nursery every morning and pick them up!\u201d says Malachi.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">In the trans community, the couple \u2013 who are keen for people to see that they live like any average family \u2013 say their love story is rare.<!-- -->Malachi says most trans people are in same-sex relationships<strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\"> <\/strong>\u2013 in terms of the sex they were born \u2013 and conceive either using a sperm donor or IVF.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cI have found in the trans community that, pre-transition, trans men<strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\"> <\/strong>generally date women,\u201d he says. \u201cThen they transition and they still stay with women. There are not many trans gay couples because the gay community is not always very accepting. They see you as a fetish, or they\u2019re like, \u2018Oh I\u2019m not really gay because I sleep with you because of your body parts.&#8217;\u201d<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"image-grouped\">\n<div class=\"ImageGroupEmbed_container__i0sRj\" data-testid=\"portrait-image-group\">\n<div class=\"ImageGroupEmbed_image-group-item__XHC82\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34817556\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34817556\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:2\/3\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_IMG_9357-1jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"Pregnant trans man shows off his bump \" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Pregnant Malachi shows off her bump<\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Supplied)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<div class=\"ImageGroupEmbed_image-group-item__XHC82\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34817554\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34817554\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:2\/3\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_45d5d26d-5c2d-4bd4-b518-b75db2aebacf.jpg\" alt=\"Gender recognition certificate\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Malachi\u2019s 2021 gender recognition certificate<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">This made meeting Charlie very refreshing. \u201cI\u2019ve always said, \u2018if you don\u2019t like trans people that\u2019s totally fine. Preference is preference.\u2019 But Charlie was like, \u2018Well, let\u2019s just go on a date, I don\u2019t care.\u2019 He saw beyond it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Charlie explains: \u201cPlenty of people out there don\u2019t care if someone is trans. I didn\u2019t care that Mal still has whatever body parts.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Malachi adds: \u201cI\u2019m just a man who has a vagina. If people want to see me another way, that\u2019s their problem \u2013 not mine.\u201d<\/p>\n<article class=\"Teaser_teaser__XImzE OpinionTeaser_teaser-opinion__u0ZfS\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34795072\" data-testid=\"opinion-teaser\">\n<div data-testid=\"opinion-teaser-image\" class=\"Teaser_cover-wrapper__VVV7O\"><picture><source media=\"undefined\" data-testid=\"source-element\"><source media=\"undefined\" data-testid=\"source-element\"><source media=\"undefined\" data-testid=\"source-element\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1761936724_537_0_1MIRROR-Main-1200x675.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/picture>\n<p><label data-testid=\"label\" class=\"Label_label__pFaDj Label_secondary__nOPjT label--section-color\"><span data-testid=\"label-text\" class=\"Label_text__tRLWj\">OPINION<\/span><\/label><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"OpinionTeaser_content-wrapper__TVVPL OpinionTeaser_large__m6_Lk\">\n<div data-testid=\"teaser-author\" class=\"TeaserAuthor_author__h_bIR TeaserAuthor_large__QjYde\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Siobhan_McNally1.jpg\" alt=\"Author avatar\"><span class=\"TeaserAuthor_author-name__YmKL2\">Siobhan McNally<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">On June 22, 1997, Malachi was born female, before being adopted at 18 months by a couple, along with his younger sister. He grew up with an older adopted brother and many foster children, whom his parents welcomed into their house in York.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Malachi has a warm relationship with his parents, and was never interested in contacting his birth parents, who he believes were drug addicts. Growing up, though, he felt different to other girls. \u201cSince I was young, I felt something wasn\u2019t right,\u201d he recalls. \u201cI couldn\u2019t put it into words, but I knew I wasn\u2019t who everyone thought I was.<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"image-group\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34817326\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34817326\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:1.5\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/2_IMG_9353jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"Man kisses pregnant man's tummy\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Dad-to-be Charlie kisses his partner\u2019s Malachi\u2019s pregnant tummy<\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Supplied)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cI hated dresses, long hair, and make-up. I was drawn to football, rugby, and hanging out with the boys.\u201d Looking for answers online, he says: \u201cI stumbled across a YouTube video of a trans man, and suddenly, I had the words I needed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Worried about explaining himself to his family, Malachi kept it a secret until, aged 17, he was outed by his sister.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cMum was shocked at the time,\u201d he says. After that, he presented as male, later changing his name by deed poll to Malachi Shadrach Clarke. \u201cI chose both biblical names \u2018Malachi\u2019 and \u2018Shadrach\u2019 because my degree\u2019s in theology, and I changed my surname to \u2018Clarke\u2019 because I love Rylan Clarke!\u201d he giggles.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">With an NHS waiting list of up to five years for hormones, he went private. \u201cWithin six weeks I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria and I started on testosterone, aged 20, in June 2018,\u201d he says. \u201cAfter a few months, I started growing facial hair. My body hair thickened, my shape changed, and my voice deepened.\u201d<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"image-grouped\">\n<div class=\"ImageGroupEmbed_container__i0sRj\" data-testid=\"portrait-image-group\">\n<div class=\"ImageGroupEmbed_image-group-item__XHC82\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34815665\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34815665\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:2\/3\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_unnamed-41.jpg\" alt=\"Charlie cuddles a pregnant Malachi\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Charlie cuddles a pregnant Malachi<\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Supplied)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<div class=\"ImageGroupEmbed_image-group-item__XHC82\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34815791\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34815791\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:2\/3\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/1_IMG_9339jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"Charlie is holding their newborn in a chair\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Daddy Charlie holds his newborn son<\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Supplied)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">The following year, in 2019, he paid \u00a36,000 for top surgery, funded by working a 100-hour week. \u201cIf I want something, I go get it,\u201d he says. \u201cI think the trans community causes their own problems. Yes, there\u2019s a long wait time. Access to our healthcare is difficult, but it\u2019s the same for all sorts of health problems, not just gender.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">In May 2021, he legally registered as male, getting his gender recognition certificate the same month. His only concern was that his gender change would make meeting someone tricky. \u201cI thought I wouldn\u2019t have kids naturally because the opportunity wouldn\u2019t arise. Then I fell in love with Charlie,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">NHS guidelines recommend coming off testosterone at least three months before getting pregnant. Charlie, who had stopped 18 months before, says: \u201cMy features became a bit softer, and my facial hair got lighter, but I didn\u2019t feel feminine \u2013 I just felt like myself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cMy periods restarted, and also my severe acne, which had been caused by testosterone, cleared up and my body\u2019s reproductive system had kicked back in.\u201d<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"image-group\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34815670\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34815670\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:1.5\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/192.168.2.55:55\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/2_IMG_9338jpeg.jpg\" alt=\"Trans man Malachi with newborn baby\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">The first hours of fatherhood, Malachi enjoys bonding with his son<\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Supplied)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">After one negative pregnancy test, the couple tried again the second month, and Malachi tested positive \u2013 news they shared excitedly with friends and family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">He recalls, \u201cBeing pregnant made me feel more Malachi than any other part of my transition. I loved it and would happily be pregnant again. I don\u2019t believe in gender roles. I\u2019m not deluded to how the world has written biology \u2013 but it\u2019s a societal construct. I felt like a man who has a reproductive system.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">While friends and family were overjoyed, the couple found their local NHS less understanding and when Malachi had a bleed during pregnancy, unhappy with their treatment, they opted for a private scan \u2013 which confirmed all was well.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">After this experience, they opted for an elected caesarean section in Malachi\u2019s hometown of York.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Even though he is legally male, Malachi is registered as the mother on the birth certificate, while Charlie is registered as the father. This anomaly means that he is both legally male and legally female simultaneously.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Unlike trans man Freddy McConnell, who conceived via sperm donor and fought in court for the right to be registered as a father on his child\u2019s birth certificate, Malachi isn\u2019t concerned.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cI don\u2019t care that I\u2019m down as mother on the birth certificate. I know who I am \u2013 I\u2019m his dad,\u201d he shrugs. \u201cYes, it would be lovely if the system was more progressive, but that change will come, there\u2019s no need to shout about it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Both men accept that they will have to explain to Baby A that he has two dads and one of them was born female.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cWe\u2019re going to tell him he has two dads and how daddy made him,\u201d says Malachi matter of factly. \u201cHe already has lots of baby-making children\u2019s books in his room about all the family variations \u2013 from adoption to IVF and also Freddy McConnell\u2019s book Little Seahorse And The Big Question, which explains how the male seahorse gives birth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cSo we\u2019re just going to tell him everything. Yes, there is a potential for him to be bullied when he\u2019s older, but we\u2019re not that worried, and we\u2019re hoping that the school he goes to will be inclusive and supportive.\u201d<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"image-group\"><button class=\"LightboxBtn_lightbox-btn__eoxYS\" aria-label=\"Open image viewer\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-controls=\"image-lightbox\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-embed__0T8WX false\" data-testid=\"imageembed-34815681\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"34815681\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"image\">\n<div class=\"ImageEmbed_image-container__2AIQm\">\n<figure class=\"Figure_figure__Uce4f\" style=\"--figure-aspect-ratio:1.5\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2_Malachi-and-Charlie.jpg\" alt=\"Trans man Malachi and his partner Charlie and their toddler son\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"ImageEmbed_fig-caption__qotOK\"><span class=\"ImageEmbed_camera-style__Qjeby\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" fill=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#clip0_209_94274)\"><path opacity=\"0.16\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M14 4H2V10.6667C2 11.403 2.59695 12 3.33333 12H12.6667C13.403 12 14 11.403 14 10.6667V4ZM8 10C9.10457 10 10 9.10457 10 8C10 6.89543 9.10457 6 8 6C6.89543 6 6 6.89543 6 8C6 9.10457 6.89543 10 8 10Z\" fill=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\"><\/path><path d=\"M2 3.33331H14V11.3333C14 12.0697 13.403 12.6666 12.6667 12.6666H3.33333C2.59695 12.6666 2 12.0697 2 11.3333V3.33331Z\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><circle cx=\"8\" cy=\"8\" r=\"2\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/circle><path d=\"M11.3332 1.33331L12.6665 1.33331\" stroke=\"var(--color-sem-icon-primary-default)\" stroke-width=\"1.33333\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/path><\/g><defs><clippath id=\"clip0_209_94274\"><rect width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"white\"><\/rect><\/clippath><\/defs><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-title__FSINC\">Malachi, left, and Charlie are hopeful for a little brother or sister for their son<\/span><span class=\"ImageEmbed_caption-credit__uNiU6\">(Image: Ian Vogler \/ Daily Mirror)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<p><\/button><\/div>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">In their local community, the couple are welcomed by mums in the park who all want to meet their toddler because he\u2019s so cute. \u201cWe will get questions like, \u2018How did you have him?\u2019 \u201cIs he adopted?\u201d says Charlie. \u201cBut I grew up here, so we never have any problems.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">However Malachi admits, \u201cWhen we leave Tilehurst and go into town (Reading), we will get stares, because it\u2019s two men and a baby.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Soon the family of three hopes to become four. \u201cI\u2019m proud I gave birth as a man and want more children. We\u2019d like a sibling for our son, so he always has a friend,\u201d says Malachi, who went back on testosterone six weeks after his birth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">Fully prepared for another natural conception \u2013 even if it means stopping his hormone treatment again \u2013 he has no intention of having genital realignment any time in the future.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"mirror\">\u201cI don\u2019t see gender or becoming male or female as defined by surgeries. No, I don\u2019t want multiple surgeries, they\u2019re invasive and it doesn\u2019t fully function intimately. Charlie and I are happy because it works for us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><span data-testid=\"readmore\" class=\"ReadMore_readmore-prefix__xS44r __className_26d96e\">READ MORE<!-- -->: <span class=\"ReadMore_readmore-link__eF9pN\">Beauty fans bag \u2018salon quality\u2019 press-on nails that last \u2018a month\u2019 for less with money-saving code<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/news\/uk-news\/inside-uk-mans-pregnancy-tests-34819293\">Source link <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" src=\"http:\/\/hamed.nwar.uk\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0_1SOCIAL-IMAGE-Mirror-exclusive-right-2B.jpg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<p>Malachi Clarke always knew he wanted to have children and was delighted when he fell pregnant just months after meeting his partner Charlie. 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