{"id":126112,"date":"2019-04-06T17:39:20","date_gmt":"2019-04-06T14:39:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ww-vb.mine.nu\/w108\/love-have-we-lost-grip-on-what-it-really-is-its-so-commonly-mistaken-for-tole\/"},"modified":"2019-04-06T17:39:20","modified_gmt":"2019-04-06T14:39:20","slug":"love-have-we-lost-grip-on-what-it-really-is-its-so-commonly-mistaken-for-tole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/love-have-we-lost-grip-on-what-it-really-is-its-so-commonly-mistaken-for-tole\/","title":{"rendered":"Love. Have we lost grip on what it really is? It\u2019s so commonly mistaken for tole&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[ad_1]<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/p\/Bv2QluKAkEc\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/ww-vb.mine.nu\/w108\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/54731627_128769851547105_4927780377795104205_n.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Love. Have we lost grip on what it really is? It\u2019s so commonly mistaken for tolerance, or watered down to a feeling or desire.\u2800<br \/>\n\u2022\u2800<br \/>\nWe are so quick to say we love this and love that&#8230; but have we cheapened the meaning? Sure, I \u201clove\u201d campfires, but then I also love Jon&#8230; So how do we reconcile this? We must reclaim the definition of love.\u2800<br \/>\n\u2022\u2800<br \/>\nTrue love is so much more than desire for something or someone. It\u2019s patient, kind, compassionate, selfless, fervent, unconditional, honest, encouraging, enduring, and full of grace and truth. Love is not a feeling; it\u2019s a sacrifice, a commitment, daily choice &#8211; a verb.\u2800 \u2022\u2800<br \/>\nTimothy Keller\u2019s words, \u201cIn any relationship, there will be frightening spells in which your feelings of love dry up.\u2800<br \/>\n\u2022\u2800<br \/>\nAnd when that happens, you must remember that the essence of marriage is that it is a covenant, a commitment, a promise of future love. So what do you do? You DO THE ACTS OF LOVE, despite your lack of feeling.\u2800<br \/>\n\u2022\u2800<br \/>\nYou may not feel tender, sympathetic, and eager to please, but in your actions you must BE tender, understanding, forgiving and helpful. And, if you do that, as time goes on you will not only get through the dry spells, but they will become less frequent and deep, and you will become more constant in your feelings.\u2800<br \/>\n\u2022\u2800<br \/>\nSeth Godin puts it like this &#8211; do what you should do, and your mood will follow. This is what can happen if you decide to love.\u201d \u2800<br \/>\n\u2022\u2800<br \/>\nLOVE IS A VERB. \u2800<\/p>\n<p>[ad_2]<br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/p\/Bv2QluKAkEc\">Source<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[ad_1] Love. Have we lost grip on what it really is? It\u2019s so commonly mistaken for tolerance, or watered down to a feeling or desire.\u2800 \u2022\u2800 We are so quick to say we love this and love that&#8230; but have we cheapened the meaning? Sure, I \u201clove\u201d campfires, but then I also love Jon&#8230; So &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[92285,23487,92280,92281,92282,92286,92284,5047,92283],"class_list":["post-126112","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tie-life-style","tag-bridal","tag-marriage","tag-marriage-not-dating","tag-marriage-proposal","tag-matrimony","tag-nuptial","tag-sexual-intercourse","tag-wedding","tag-wedlock"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126112","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=126112"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126112\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=126112"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=126112"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=126112"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}