{"id":109403,"date":"2018-12-10T17:42:46","date_gmt":"2018-12-10T14:42:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ww-vb.mine.nu\/w108\/im-depressed-and-unable-to-move-on-after-my-breakup\/"},"modified":"2018-12-10T17:42:46","modified_gmt":"2018-12-10T14:42:46","slug":"im-depressed-and-unable-to-move-on-after-my-breakup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hameed.nwar.uk\/sa\/im-depressed-and-unable-to-move-on-after-my-breakup\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m depressed and unable to move on after my breakup"},"content":{"rendered":"

Question:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dear Ma\u2019am,<\/strong><\/p>\n

I had a breakup recently. I don\u2019t know who to blame for it. In fact, this is my 2nd relationship. I met him at our workplace when I was just out of my previous relationships. We exchanged numbers due to work issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Then he started messaging me on WhatsApp. Initially, I tried to maintain distance as I didn\u2019t want another relation yet. Soon we became friends. When he proposed to me, I had to reject him, as I was not ready. And we are from different states and caste is also different. His parents were looking for an alliance. I wanted to stop chatting. But he begged me not to stop.<\/strong><\/p>\n

His engagement got fixed, still, we were talking. By that time, I had feelings for him. He also knew it. He said he loved me. But he can\u2019t do anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s how my story ended. He got married. I went into depression. I saw a psychiatrist who prescribed medicines to me. I took it for one week. Later stopped as I was feeling uneasy. My parents stood by me through it all. I was afraid to sleep alone also. It has been a month. Still, I\u2019m not able to move on. I have exams coming up. I\u2019m not able to concentrate also as I used to. I feel like I have changed. I have become a new person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Dear young lady,<\/p>\n

What happened to you was a rebound.<\/p>\n

Rebound: <\/strong>When your first relationship failed, the second one became an anchor for you. Let us look at the man in the second affair. He knew <\/p>\n

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